Oh my goodness! I am so sorry!! But I am so, so relieved that everyone is okay and that they caught him.
This is very different, but our house was broken into a few years ago while we were gone. For a few days, I felt very violated, as they had opened basically every drawer and cabinet in our house, and rummaged through everything. But I surprised myself how quickly I got over the actual feeling of fear, and it turned into anger. My guard was definitely up any time I saw anyone/anything suspicious in the neighborhood. But that has diminished as well, and hope that you start feeling more secure in your own home again very soon.