For those of you who are FB friends with me, please nothing on fb. I had my dr appt yesterday, and I got the results of my "big scan." I took the scan two weeks early at 18w instead of 20w so my husband could be there, I didn't want to be alone. My dr did tell me I'd need to go back in to see the blood flow though. I was okay with that. She told me the results had noted a echogenic focus in the left ventricle. My quad screen was perfectly normal, so she told me not to worry and especially not to google anything bc it's probably just an error or wrong angle on the US machine.
She referred me to a perinatologist. There are none here, so I'd most likely need to fly out to Oahu within the next few weeks for the day. DH is working on Oahu right now. I asked if he'd be able to pick me up from the airport. He tells me, not if its in the morning. Is it wrong of me to be pissed/sad/freaked out? Do I really need to go to this dam n appt alone?? Because he works and he doesn't know how he'd leave (since he leaves his car at the Hawaii 5-0 stage and they go film around the island). He has coverage. In fact, his co worker left early today and won't be in tomorrow. They always cover each other's backs that way if one has something important or an emergency comes up.
Am I wrong to think that this US to see if something is wrong with our son is important enough to be late to work????? Am I wrong not to want to be alone???? I'm so pissed off and hurt that I had to hang up with him. I don't even know what to say. I was just quiet while he went on and on about how he doesn't know bc of the schedule and its a different boss this season and blah blah blah. Maybe I'm over reacting, but this ultrasound is to confirm whether or not our son has a echogenic focus. I dont know what it would mean later if he does, but this is a big deal to me.
Am I overreacting? What would you tell your husband?